Indiana Dating Scene

Hello everyone and welcome back to my blog. I definitely have some news to report. I have received back some messages from some of the girls that I messaged the other day. So far there is nothing really profound that has come in. Mainly they have been saying thanks for the compliment and then ask me some kind of question. I also am getting comments on how I look. Like I said, most women find me attractive. I am not trying to be cocky or anything that is just what enough people have told me in my life so I believe it now. So far I am enjoying myself and I definitely see the potential in some of these girls. The girls that I decided to send messages to are all girls that are listed as being employed and they are the girls that appear to be self sufficient which is what I want. If you recall I mentioned that I need to find a woman that is not going to be a burden to me and not going to be codependent.

There are more women out there that are not independent. Independence is not something that is bred in our society. The media pursuades young women to not be independent. There are still a lot of women out there that are clinging to outdated morals. I am not looking for that kind of woman. I need a woman who is already happy with her life and doesn't need a man to "complete her". There are a lot of things in these girls profiles that are red flags to me. For starters if I see the word fate then I immediately run in the opposite direction. People who believe in fate are doomed from the start and they lack the intelligence that I seek to keep company with. These are usually the same kind of people who believe in horoscopes and psychics. I do not care how attractive a woman is if she has these beliefs. I am looking for a down to earth logical woman who is probably also an atheist. I am not saying I won't date a religious woman but she would have to be pretty hot and still down to earth. There IS women out there who are down to earth but still believe in God.

I do not believe in God at all. I am an atheist and a realist. I Know that I will probably only be happy with a girl that is like minded. I feel sorry for people that do not share the same beliefs as me. I know this may some arrogant but I don't care. I only care about my own happiness and I wil do whatever it takes to maintain that happiness. If this means being cold and calculated then so be it. I have met so many people in my life that are not happy and they don't do anything to make themselves happier.

I did get a few random messages from some girls who were clearly checking out my profile. They are all like you are so hot and you have such a hot body etc. I can already tell that these girls are just simply that... girls. They are not successful, independent women so I know I would be wasting my time unless I just wanted to use them for sex and that is not how I roll. I didn't always think like this, certainly not when I was in my early twenties. I was more of a dog back then and I was very selfish and immoral. Now that I am older, and I have learned from my mistakes, I see things totally different. I have watched my selfish and immaturity hurt other people in the past and the guilt I felt from those actions overwhelmed and changed me ultimately.

I may be going on a bit of a rambling rant here, I just want all my readers to know that I am not a douche bag and that I have very clear cut morals now and I try and live by them. I respect people that have a code and live their life according to their code. It takes a lot of discipline which again is something I did not have a lot of when I was young. I don't know many people that DO have a lot of discipline when they are young and the other thing is that not all adult are able to shed those bad habits and they carry them into childhood and it impairs them.

My name is Justin and I would like to welcome you to my blog. I am a single guy living in Indiana and I am 32 years old. Three months ago my girlfriend and I broke up. It was not a messy breakup. We were together for 3 years and we just both felt like we were getting distant and weren't really suited for each other. Luckily I wasn't dumb enough to move in and life with her. So here I am single again. I read an interesting article in GQ Magazine a month ago about Internet dating sites and it got me to thinking that maybe the kind of girl that would be suitable for me would be someone who would use an Internet dating site. So decided to take plunge and dive in with both feet. This week I joined an online dating site and I also created this blog so that I could share my experiences with the rest of the world.

I am a cable installer for the largest cable company here in Indianapolis. I am the guy that comes over when you order Internet access or digital phone etc. It is an interesting job and I get to meet new people everyday. People are usually in a good mood when I show up because it means they are about to get access. I am not the guy that comes by when something is wrong. I always have interesting stories about being in strangers apartments and I have to tell you that I have learned a lot about people from doing this job for the last 7 years. I make pretty good money and the hours I work are decent. I like to workout at the gym 4 times a week and I am pretty muscular now. I don't have a problem attracting women in real life, but I think I want to try this Internet dating route because I think I can learn more about a girl before I actually meet her. This way I can prequalify women and make sure I am only going out with women that could be good potential long term candidates.

I finished creating my online profile this morning. I think it is pretty good. I had a chance to look around at some other guys and what their profiles said and that helped me think of areas I wanted to address. I only copied their structure not the actual content of their profile. I made it very clear the type of woman I want and the things that a woman would have to tolerate if she wanted to be with me. I am not looking for someone who is going to become codependent on me. I need a woman who has her own friends already and likes to go spend time with them and not have to be with me every damn second of the day. I have been in relationships where we do everything together and it always turns into shit. Distance makes the heart grow fond. I am going to be spending some time tonight going through the online dating site and sending some intro messages to various girls from Indianapolis.